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Joel started writing this in the early 1980's about a relationship he then had with supermodel Elle MacPherson. Their backgrounds were so different that he knew the relationship would fail, which it did. He predicted the end of the relationship with the line "And you can have this heart to break."
The title comes from television journalist Linda Ellerbee's signature line and best-selling book title. (thanks, Ken - Louisville, KY, for above 2)
When Joel appeared on The Howard Stern Show in 2010, he said that this was his least-appreciated song - the best one that casual fans aren't aware of.
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Pam, Altanta
Tommy Emmanuel, IMHO the finest guitarist in the world, does a nice cover here on YouTube:
< http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IJ7H5dEdaDs >
Linda Ellerbee stole the phrase from Lloyd Dobbins from the NBC Weekend show, who must have in turn stole it from Vonnegut. Dobbins was later replaced on the show by Ellerbee, or on some subsequent show, and complained about Ellerbee's use of the phrase. However he did acknowledge that the phrase still worked, when he no longer did :).