Songfacts®:

• Jewel wrote this breezy love song with Steve Poltz from The Rugburns, who also appears in the video with Jewel - they were a couple at the time. At a 2007 concert in Sydney, Poltz explained that he wrote the song with Jewel while in Mexico, and at one point the lyrics flew out of the car window when they were driving. He went back to get it, but almost abandoned it. Poltz would go on to start the "Frasier Fair" in 1998, which was a male response to the Lilith Fair.
• This was Jewel's second single, providing a follow up to her debut hit "Who Will Save Your Soul?" and quickly taking her out of one-hit-wonder consideration.
• "You Were Meant For Me" appeared on Jewel's debut album, Pieces Of You, in February 1995. The lead single, "Who Will Save Your Soul?," very slowly found an audience as Jewel toured the country playing festivals and showcases. Radio stations gradually added the song, and in August 1996, it reached a chart peak of #11. This was before the internet was big, so weather or not you heard of Jewel was largely determined by if one of your local radio stations was playing her music.
  
  "You Were Meant For Me" was released as the second single in October 1996 and climbed to #2 in April 1997. It was also a #1 hit on the Adult Contemporary chart, earning airplay on that format for a long time to come.
• Two music videos were made. The original was directed by Sean Penn in 1996 and featured the less popular "Juan Patino Radio Mix."
  
  Lawrence Carroll directed a second video for the hit radio version, which features Jewel and Steve Poltz as lovers struggling to be together. Jewel said the shedding of her clothes in the video symbolizes "being free with a lover or friend. Being stripped and surrender yourself to them."
• The Lawrence Carroll-directed video won the award for Best Female Video at the 1997 MTV Video Music Awards.
• "You Were Meant For Me" is one of the more placid love songs you'll hear, with Jewel singing about finding a guy she can eat pancakes with and cohabitate. But according to its co-writer, Steve Poltz, it was "written on a drug bust in Mexico."
  
  He and Jewel met a couple of cops who agreed to take them whale-watching until duty called. "We were way out on the water and they got a call and said, 'We don't have time to drop you off. We're trying to catch these drug smugglers, and there might be a shoot-out,'" Poltz told told Entertainment Weekly. "They asked us if we wanted AK-47s, so we had guns, and they caught the guys. We helped them load the pot back onto the boat and they took us back to shore." Luckily, no shots were fired.
• Jewel recorded this song three times before she found a version that made her and her record label happy. She told Billboard of the original version: "When I got my album in my hands for the first time, I sat down crying because I hated the way I sang the song so much. The choruses really bothered me. To hear that it was going to be the single, it was like, no, that's my worst nightmare come true I was appalled." After a lukewarm remix that spawned the Sean Penn-directed video, Jewel still wasn't satisfied and insisted on recording the third and final version, which became a hit.
• This was used on the TV shows How I Met Your Mother ("Game Night" - 2006) and The Office ("Phyllis' Wedding" - 2007).
• Jewel performed this, along with "Who Will Save Your Soul?," on a 1997 episode of Saturday Night Live, hosted by actor John Goodman.
• At the time, this was the biggest-selling single in the history of Atlantic Records, and Jewel became the label's first artist to grace the cover of TIME magazine (July 21, 1997).
• The Pistol Annies, a country music trio featuring Miranda Lambert, Ashley Monroe, and Angaleena Presley, joined Jewel on this track for her 2013 Greatest Hits album.
• Jewel performed this, along with "Foolish Games," under the guise of a businesswoman at a karaoke bar in a 2010 Funny or Die video.
• Jewel wrote the song during the time she was homeless and living in her car. During that period she started having panic attacks and anxiety, and came up with her own way of coping, using mindfulness exercises to retrain her brain. In an interview with ABC radio, she said the line, "Dreams last for so long even after you're gone" is about "the love of fantasy versus the actual reality."