Songfacts®:

• This song is about a long-distance relationship where the guy is really frustrated. His girl never seems to have time for him, and he wonders if she even cares. >>>

  Suggestion credit:
  Bertrand - Paris, France
• There is a telephone motif in this song. It starts with a dial tone before John McCrea comes in with the first lines:
  
  I need your arms around me
  I need to feel your touch
  
  His voice is processed to narrow his frequency, similar to what a telephone call sounds like, implying that he is talking over the phone, possibly after the girl hung up on him. The touchtones that sound when dialing also show up in a few spots during the song, which could indicate he's making repeated calls, hoping she'll answer. It's probably a drunk dial.
• In the video, McCrea plays a cuckolded cowboy who hires a private detective to tell him what we already know: his girl is with another guy. Of course, she may never have been his to begin with.
• "Never There" is the biggest hit for Cake. It's their only song to hit the Hot 100, and it also went to #1 on the Modern Rock chart. Unlike most "alternative" bands, Cake isn't heavy on guitar and the vocals are very clear. They also have a trumpet player, Vince DiFiore, who gets lots of playing time on this track. Their sound was too adventurous for most radio stations, but they carved out a niche and sold a lot of albums - Prolonging The Magic went Platinum, with over a million sales.
• This plays during a birthday party scene in the 1999 Friends episode "The One Where Rachel Smokes."
• The teeth-chattering rattle that punctuates the verses was created by a vibraslap. One of Cake's signature percussion instruments, it's made of a stiff, u-shaped wire that connects a wooden ball to a wooden or metal box containing metal teeth. When the ball is struck, the vibration creates a rattling sound. It can also be heard in "Short Skirt/Long Jacket."
• An early performance of "Never There" took place at the bar mitzvah for Mitchell Schop, a Florida fan who convinced them to play it by writing them a letter and then singing his favorite Cake song over the phone. Impressed with the pre-teen, they arranged to kick off their 1999 world tour at his celebration in Deerfield Beach, Florida, attended by about 60 guests. The next day they played a show in Orlando to start the public-facing part of the tour.
  
  When bands play bar mitzvahs, it's usually because they're offered gobs of money to do so, or because they're no longer in demand and taking any gigs they can get. This was unusual because Cake did it for free and were a very hot band.