Jar of Hearts

Album: Lovestrong (2010)
Charted: 4 17
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Songfacts®:

  • In this song, Christina Perri looks to distance herself from a guy who is worse than a heartbreaker - he's a heart collector, keeping them in a (metaphorical) jar and tearing love apart.

    She wrote the lyric about a serial heart collector she once dated. On her blog, she told the story behind the tune: "I wrote the song after I went home to Philadelphia for the holiday last December [2009]. I sat in my childhood bedroom and hid from the boy (with the jar of hearts) who wanted to see me. My heart wanted to see him, my head knew better."
  • "Jar Of Hearts" was Christina Perri's first single, released in 2010 about 10 months before it appeared on her debut album, Lovestrong.

    Perri moved to Los Angeles from Philadelphia with one suitcase and a guitar. She was hoping to follow in the footsteps of her older, musician brother Nick Perri, the former lead guitarist of Shinedown. Her breakthrough came when "Jar Of Hearts" featured on the June 30, 2010 episode of the nationwide televised dance competition So You Think You Can Dance before it was even released. Billy Bell and Kathryn McCormick danced to the song on the show in a routine choreographed by Stacey Tookey. The routine and the song got a great reaction from viewers, so the track was rushed onto iTunes, where it immediately landed at #20 on the overall chart. It was gradually added to radio playlists, and on September 13, 2010, the video landed on YouTube. The song made a slow climb up the charts, reaching #17 in the US on March 19, 2011.
  • Perri learned about the song's placement on So You Think You Can Dance, following a particularly grueling shift at a Café in Beverly Hills, one that had her daydreaming about dramatic ways to cease employment. "I was being yelled at all day," she said. "I got into my car and I wasn't 100 feet from the café when I got the call. I screamed. Then I cried. Then I called my mom."
  • The song's music video was directed by Jay Martin (Death Cab for Cutie, Cold War Kids, Wolfmother) and was shot on a soundstage designed as a New York City street. The clip features So You Think You Can Dance All-Stars Kathryn McCormick and Allison Holker (who both danced to Christina's song on the show) as well as Keltie Colleen, Peter Chu, Chelsea Thedinga, Chantel Aguirre and Eboni Adams. SYTYCD's Stacey Tookey choreographed the dancers.

    Perri's co-manager Tom Gates told Billboard magazine that it was Perri who came up with the idea for the video. "When we were flying back from all those meetings, she was all keyed up and I just wanted to sleep," he recalled. "I told her she should spend the flight writing a treatment for the video if she needed something to do, and when I woke up at LAX, she had done it."
  • Perri admitted to PopEater that it's bittersweet that so many people can relate to a song that has such a painful meaning. She explained: "I go to all these places, and I've been fortunate enough to meet a lot of people who like the song and to play it for them. They come up to me, and it's not like they come up and they're like, 'This song about the sunshine and being on the beach all day. I love that song and I totally relate!' They're literally like, crying, and some of them are like, 'I've just gone through a divorce, and this song made me'... but that's normally the end of that sentence or story. [Then] it's always like, 'I have hope now,' or 'I've gained strength from this.' Even though it's really a kind of bizarre, sad, heart-wrenching topic, I feel like the main theme in the song, if you listen, is about getting stronger and not going back to that person that keeps breaking your heart. It's a weird one, but I like the fact that people end up feeling stronger after they hear it."
  • As a result of this song, Perri's fans would often send her jars with hearts of some kind - not real ones (we hope).
  • Perri wrote this song with Barrett Yeretsian and Drew Lawrence. Yeretsian produced it.
  • Christina Perri followed "Jar Of Hearts" with a few more hits, including "A Thousand Years" from the Twilight movie Breaking Dawn. She did a lot of touring before shifting her focus to family. In 2017, she got married, and in 2018 had her first child, a daughter named Carmella.

Comments: 6

  • Silakhul Muttaqien from Demak, Central Java, IndonesiaMy students learned how to review on an art work through this beautiful song. They were very enthusiastic, moreover, when they sang this song accompanied by a guitar at the end of learning in their classroom.
  • Taylor from KentuckyMe and my soccer team listen to this song on the bus home after we lose a game. We love this song
  • Nick Dv from HawaiiJust listened to this on an old Christine CD and thought, she does an amazing cover of this song.

    Was totally chuffed to see she wrote and debuted it, totally awesome song - one of the must haves for anyone serious about music.
  • Chris from Germany The refrain reminds me of The World I Know by Collective Soul
  • Gabby from Las Vegas, NvI LOVE this song. It can be so sad yet hopeful at the same time.
  • Suzie James from Kingston, Jamaicathis songs is beautiful...I first heard it when she proformed it on "SO YOU THINK YOU CAN DANCE" i think song is about letting go of unhealthy relationship where this person is only in her life to hurt her ...she reminds herself and the man that he is nt good for her and that he needs to leave
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