Am I Okay?

Album: Am I Okay? (2024)
Charted: 34
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  • "Am I Okay?" is about the first blushes of new romance as Megan Moroney falls for a "6'2' dream." The high-octane blend of country, punk, and pop captures the euphoric feeling of being swept off your feet.

    "People are probably going to think it's going to be a heart-wrenching song, but it's just not," Moroney told Apple Music. "It's like you're actually happy for once and you're asking yourself, 'Oh my God. Am I OK?' That's how I felt at one time. I think that when I had hope in a relationship with this guy, it lasted for a month or two until he showed his true colors. But we live and we learn. We got a good song out of it, and then we moved on."
  • Megan Moroney wrote the song with Jessie Jo Dillon (Cole Swindell's "Break Up In The End," Dan + Shay's "10,000 Hours") and Luke Laird (Carrie Underwood's "So Small," Little Big Town's "Pontoon") at Luke Laird's writing cabin on October 2, 2023.

    "When I was explaining how I felt, I was like, 'Yeah, I want to write a love song,'" she recalled to Billboard. "Like, 'I'm tired of writing sad songs. I don't know what's wrong with me, but I met this guy, and he's being really nice to me, and for once, I don't want to sabotage it. And I think I could be a girlfriend.' And they were just like, 'Oh my God, are you okay?'"

    That, of course, became the title.

    The bright, upbeat topic helped meet her musical goals, too. Moroney knew she would be touring with Kenny Chesney in 2024, and she wanted a song that would feel good in a stadium. Laird called up a chugging track he had created around a floating guitar intro, and he believed it would fit her musically.

    "She delivers a song so well with just her and a guitar," Laird said. "I thought this one will be easy to do that way, too. There's only, like, three chords. It's simple. It's in her key. And she liked it. And I think that it kind of brought an energy to the room, like more of a live thing."
  • The song is the title track of Megan Moroney's second album. It's a deeply personal record that delves into the complexities of love, loss, and self-discovery. "Am I Okay?" is a refreshing and upbeat contrast to some of the more melancholic themes explored in other tracks on the album.

    "Sometimes it almost feels like oversharing, but I feel like I have a responsibility to all the people who send me DMs or talk to me at shows and tell me how my songs helped them through a breakup or a bad time in their lives," said Moroney. "If I can write about my heartbreak and make someone else feel like there's a way out, then of course I'm going to keep doing that."
  • I checked my pulse and my heart's still beating
    Exhale, I think I'm still breathing
    Both feet on the ground but something's changed
    I've been playing less Black Keys, baby


    The songwriters started off the song with Moroney checking her pulse and heart to make sure she's really breathing, a recognition of the change in personality that this new guy had inspired. "I've been playing less black keys, baby," they wrote in that first verse, alluding to the sharps and flats on a piano keyboard, which create an alternative musical scale on their own.

    "It's alluding to writing less sad music," Dillon said. "I feel like that was [about] being less emo and writing [fewer] sad songs because she's known for some of her sad songs as much as 'Tennessee Orange.'"

    One of Moroney's managers later capitalized Black Keys on a lyric sheet, believing it to be a reference to the Nashville-based rock band. That development surprised all three writers, who had not contemplated that interpretation.

    "I'm a huge Black Keys fan, and their s--t can be pretty emo," Dillon said. "Their lyrics can be pretty sad - and so I guess either way somebody interprets that, it kind of works."
  • Ironically, the week Moroney recorded the song, she broke up with her boyfriend.

    "I'm in the studio having to sing this song about a guy being really nice to me, when actually it was just like three months and he showed me who he actually was," she said. "And now I have to sing this forever."

    Moroney has not publicly disclosed the identity of the now ex-boyfriend she's singing about.
  • The video won Best Country at the 2025 MTV Video Music Awards, where Moroney performed her song "6 Months Later."

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