Album: Partners In Crime (1979)
Charted: 31 6
  • Over by the window, there's a pack of cigarettes.
    Not my brand you understand,
    Sometimes the girl forgets
    She forgets to hide them

    I know who left those smokes behind
    She'll say, oh, he's just a friend,
    And I'll say, oh, I'm not blind
    To..

    [Chorus]
    Him him him, what's she gonna do about him?
    She's gonna have to live without him,
    It's him or it's me, me me,
    No one gets to get it for free
    It's me or it's him.

    Don't know what he looks like,
    Don't know who he is.
    Don't know why she thought that I
    Would say what's mine is his.

    I don't want to own her,
    But I can't let her have it both ways.
    Three is one too many of us,
    She leaves with me or stays
    With..

    [Chorus]

    If she wants him she can have him,
    Just exactly how we once were,
    Its goodbye to he and I,
    and back to me and her,
    Without..

    [Chorus]

    [Chorus] Writer/s: ROBIN HALEY, NICOLE WITT
    Publisher: Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
    Lyrics licensed and provided by LyricFind

Comments: 8

  • Tania from Brisbane, AustraliaOne look at the lyrics, or heck even listen to the song, and you know straight away it’s about her cheating on her partner!
  • Barry from Sauquoit, NyOn January 19, 1980, Rupert Holmes performed "Him" on the Dick Clark ABC-TV Saturday-afternoon program, 'American Bandstand'...
    At the time "Him" was in it's first week on Billboard's Top 100 chart at position #72, ten weeks later it would peak at #6 {for 2 weeks} and it spent seventeen weeks on the Top 100...
    It reached #4 on both the Billboard and Canadian Adult Contemporary Tracks charts...
    Between 1978 and 1981 the Englishman had six records on the Top 100 chart, two made the Top 10 with one reaching #1, "Escape (The Pina Colada Song)", for two weeks on December 16th, 1979...
    He charted two more times on the Top 100 as a member of the Street People, "Jennifer Tomkins" {#36 in 1970} and "Thank You Girl" {#96, also in 1970}...
    Mr. Holmes, born David Goldstein, will celebrate his 71st birthday next month on February 24th {2018}.
  • Greg from Durham, NcThis is about an affair, plain and simple.
  • Tony from San DiegoHow the heck can anyone EVER think this is about a menage a trois ? He clearly states "Don't know what he looks like, don't know who he is". End of story.
  • Yakofujimato from Boston, MaThis is NOT about a menage a trois. Ron has it right. The narrator's lady is double dipping and he is giving her an ultimatum.
  • Joe from New Richmond, WiI totally agree with Ron, it's not a menage a trois, based on the line "...three is one too many of us..."
  • Ron from New Harmony, UtI don't know if I agree with the analysis above about this song being about a "menage a trois". The lyrics suggest his lady is seeing someone else and he is aware of it. He is confronting her about the other man and asking her to make a choice between the two of them and letting her know that if she doesn't choose, he's out of there.
  • James from Yucaipa, CaThis is one of my all time favorite songs.I remember it well in 1980.Rupert holmes is a great songwriter/musician.7/21/08
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