When Destiny's Child performed this song at the BET Awards in 2005
, they wandered into the crowed midway through the song looking for "some men to cater to." Beyoncé grabbed Terrence Howard; Rowland found her "Dilemma
" partner Nelly, and Williams claimed Magic Johnson. They led each of them to the stage, where they sat them down, sang to them, and gave them lap dances. Nelly and Magic played it straight, but Howard looked like Roger Rabbit the first time he saw Jessica. "My wife can't be too happy, but she came and got me," Howard explained. "I tried to say no."