The One You Love

Album: Want Two (2004)
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Songfacts®:

  • This song is about sexual morality, with Wainwright (who is openly gay) asking his lover, "Am I only the one you love?" Note the position of the word "only," which has a different meaning if stated, "Am I the only one you love?"
  • Wainwright's sister Martha, one of a handful of musicians in the family, added backing vocals to this track, and Levon Helm of The Band played drums on it. The album was recorded at Bearsville Studios in Woodstock, New York, which is where Helm lived. He had recently fought off throat cancer and was happy to go back to work.
  • The music video shows performance footage of Wainwright and follows the singer as he wanders around various cities. It was compiled with footage that was used for his 2005 DVD All I Want: A Portrait of Rufus Wainwright, directed by George Scott.

Comments: 3

  • Luke Taylor from Manchester, United KingdomSounds great live too!
  • Laurent from Paris, FranceThis song is truly amazing and the video is also worth watching. The backvocals by Martha are wonderful.
  • Rosario from Buenos Aires, United StatesAWESOME SONG.. LED TO LOVING RUFUS AMAIZING VOICE
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