If It Makes You Happy

Album: Sheryl Crow (1996)
Charted: 9 10
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Songfacts®:

  • This song describes a person who seems depressed or upset no matter what happens. According to Crow, the inspiration for the song was her feelings after the massive success of her first album, Tuesday Night Music Club, as her record label and the media put pressure on her to follow it up. That debut album she wrote and recorded with a group of guys who would get together on Tuesday nights to make music. When it became a surprise hit, some of them disparaged Crow in the media, claiming they deserved more credit and/or royalties than they got.

    "It was a message to everybody that had been a part of the first record," she told People in 2023. "While everybody's making a ton of money off this record, I'm the one that's having to defend myself. That was basically the impetus for the song."
  • The song raises some interesting questions about the nature of happiness, which can be fleeting and subjective. Asked by Rolling Stone in 2017, "If it makes you happy, can it be that bad?" Crow responded: "As great a hook as that might be, that is a conundrum. My struggle in life is accepting the idea of choosing to be happy. Happiness is not something where you wake up that way. You decide you're gonna be happy. And it took me a long time to figure that out. I definitely consciously do it with my children, because they define themselves by your mood and how it relates to them. As a parent and as a person, life can be happy, but you have to decide that that's the life you're gonna lead."
  • Crow wrote this song with Jeff Trott, who has worked on many of her songs, including "Everyday Is a Winding Road" and "Soak Up The Sun." Trott came up with the line, "If it makes you happy, then why the hell are you so sad?"

    "I look at songwriters like they're people who really love puzzles," Trott explained to Songfacts. "When you don't really have the real heart of the theme developed yet, and then all of a sudden, you stumble across it, I always say something like, 'All right we've cracked the code.'"
  • On her VH1 Storytellers appearance in 1998, Sheryl Crow said this was initially a country song, but she turned it into a rock song so she could get more exposure. >>
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    Adrian - Gettysburg, PA
  • "If It Makes You Happy" was the first single from Crow's second album, Sheryl Crow. Her first album, Tuesday Night Music Club, was released in 1993 but took over a year to catch on; the singles "Strong Enough" and "Can't Cry Anymore" were on the charts well into 1995. "If It Makes You Happy" showed that her debut wasn't a fluke, giving her a solid hit and plenty of momentum for the album. She used a different set of musicians than she did on Tuesday Night Music Club and produced the album herself.
  • The Australian lensman Keir McFarlane directed the video, which portrays Crow as an angry museum exhibit (10 years before the movie Night at the Museum). McFarlane also did the video for Tom Petty's "Mary Jane's Last Dance."
  • "If It Makes You Happy" won the Grammy award for Best Female Rock Vocal Performance, and the album won for Best Rock Album. Two years earlier, Crow won three Grammys, including Best New Artist. >>
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  • Crow is a huge fan of Tom Petty, and said that this song was in some ways inspired by the way he played.
  • In 2011 Crow teamed up with chef Chuck White to write a cookbook called If It Makes You Healthy.

Comments: 6

  • Patrick from Canadamaybe the emotions similar to Free Man in Paris lyrics by Joni Mitchell. "No one's future to decide." Both introspective, great to have success but still pressured to keep the popular songs coming...
  • Kb from SeaIt's a tribute to Kurt Cobain.
  • Jim from Long Beach, CaI love this song and this period of Miss Crows career. I love the goth look on her at the time, very sexy!
  • Tim from Phoenix, AzIf it makes you happy then it makes you and you and you and you all happy ...but then who is you and why are you sad..one sad duck
  • Theresa from Murfreesboro, TnThis song contains Sheryl's best vocals, definitely a great rock anthem. Love the video as well.
  • Madalyn from Greensburg, Pai can definatly relate to have pressure...and trying to make other happy no matter what torture you put yourself through
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