Lose You to Love Me

Album: Rare (2019)
Charted: 3 1
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  • You promised the world and I fell for it
    I put you first and you adored it
    Set fires to my forest
    And you let it burn
    Sang off-key in my chorus
    'Cause it wasn't yours
    I saw the signs and I ignored it
    Rose-colored glasses all distorted
    Set fire to my purpose
    And I let it burn
    You got off on the hurtin'
    When it wasn't yours, yeah

    We'd always go into it blindly
    I needed to lose you to find me
    This dance, it was killing me softly
    I needed to hate you to love me, yeah

    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me

    I gave my all and they all know it
    Then you tore me down and now it's showing
    In two months, you replaced us
    Like it was easy
    Made me think I deserved it
    In the thick of healing, yeah

    We'd always go into it blindly
    I needed to lose you to find me
    This dance, it was killing me softly
    I needed to hate you to love me, yeah

    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me

    You promised the world and I fell for it
    I put you first and you adored it
    Set fires to my forest
    And you let it burn
    Sang off-key in my chorus

    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to hate you to love me, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah

    And now the chapter is closed and done
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    And now it's goodbye, it's goodbye for us Writer/s: Julia Michaels, Justin Tranter, Mattias Larsson, Robin Fredriksson, Selena Gomez
    Publisher: Universal Music Publishing Group, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
    Lyrics licensed and provided by LyricFind

Comments: 2

  • Bethany Ellis from Knoxville, TennI love that song it reminded me of my relationship with William. It’ll be on my wedding ceremony when I walk down with Ben.
  • Al from CanadaSelena is sweet and her music is is definitely worthy of awards !!
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