No More Drama

Album: No More Drama (2001)
Charted: 9 15


  • This song was written by the team of Jimmy Jam and Terry Lewis, who were also the producers of the track. The song is about going through hard times and moving on from the pain, topics that resonated with Blige. According to Lewis, they spent a lot of time with Blige prior to writing the song. When she heard it, she felt it told her story perfectly and didn't change a word.
  • Fans of daytime soap operas immediately recognized the piano part in this song as the theme to the venerable CBS show The Young And The Restless. The TV song is known as "Nadia's Theme," although it was originally titled "Cotton's Dream." The sample was very fitting for this song, as drama is very much associated with the show. The writers of the theme - Perry Botkin and Barry Vorzon - are credited as writers on "No More Drama" because of the sample.
  • Blige told the Daily Telegraph February 7, 2008, that when she sings "No More Drama" in concert, she feels a lifetime of pain unspooling every time: "I go through the emotion of being a child growing up in the projects, getting robbed, grown-ups snatching our trick-or-treating bags, being shot at, having to fight physically every day of your life, going home to alcoholic aunts and every woman around you being beaten so badly by men you can't even understand it, and then growing up and realizing you're repeating all those patterns, you're drinking the alcohol and doing the drugs and being abused by men, and the pain and frustration of not being able to stop it. I rewind through that every time I sing it. I want to give people the real truth."
  • The album was released shortly before the September 11, 2001 terrorist attacks in America; Blige said that she used this song as an outlet to express her emotions.
  • A vocal sample of the words "Mary J. Blige, no more drama" repeats throughout the course of the album.
  • The song was written for Blige's 1999 album Mary, but when she heard it, she insisted on making it the title track of her next album.
  • This won the 2002 MTV Video Music Award for Best R&B Song.
  • The No More Drama album was re-released in 2002 with some different tracks.
  • This was featured in the 2003 drama Honey, starring Jessica Alba.
  • Blige asked Mariah Carey and P. Diddy to appear in the music video, as they both were experiencing their fair share of drama. Carey suffered a nervous breakdown after finishing the soundtrack album for her star turn in Glitter, a commercial failure. Meanwhile, Diddy was facing the legal fallout from a club shooting. They appear on TV screens as Blige sings in front of a store window. The rest of the clip follows hard-luck stories of a drug addict, a gang member, and an abused woman. By the end, they all break the cycle and start new lives.
  • Tyler Perry used this as the background theme in his films Why Did I Get Married? and Why Did I Get Married Too?
  • Throughout her career, Blige has brought her fans on an emotional journey. "We cried so much on the My Life album," she tells Billboard magazine. "We were so confused on the Share My World album. We went through a lot together and we almost died together, but I figured out a way to get us out of this private hell we're living in. The No More Drama album was about bringing the joy that I found to all those people who were crying with me."
  • Much of the album was fueled by Blige's turbulent relationship with Cedric "K-Ci" Hailey of Jodeci, a six-year span that was marred by abuse and humiliation (K-Ci publicly denied his engagement to the singer after giving her a ring).

Comments: 5

  • Neil from Boulder, Co"When I say 'no more drama,' I'm saying no more to things like being my own worst enemy, no more hurting myself, just no more of that mess. Life is full of drama, but the bottom line is, you've got to make the choice whether you're going to be happy or not. Even when you make the choice to be happy, there's still going to be drama – but at least you won't be inflicting the drama on yourself."
  • Charles Hollingswort from Leeds, AlThis song features almost the entire theme from "The Young and The Restless":only the bridge has been removed. "The Young and the Restless" theme was written and performed by Barry De Vorzon and Perry Botkin,Jr. and was originally entitled "Cotton's Dream" and then in 1976 the name was changed to "Nadia's Theme" in honor of 14 year old Romanian gymnist Nadia Comaneci who for the first time ever received a perfect score of 10 in a gymnastic event at the 1976 Summer Olympics in Montreal. De Vorzon and Botkin,Jr.'s recording of "Nadia's Theme" became a hit. Nadia's mother named Nadia after Nadezhda,the heroine in a Russian movie she was watching while pregnant with Nadia. Her mother shortened it to "Nadia". Ironically and fittingly both for the tribute to Nadia and Mary's song being superimposed with the message they bring:Nadia's name is taken from the long version of the Russian given name which means HOPE!!!
  • Chuck from Las Vegas, NvNotorious B.I.G's first time ever on a song was for Mary J Blige's "Real Love" which was produced by P. Diddy
  • Shawn from Fairburn, GaI love that song,I going through some trials and tribulations of her song of 2001.
  • Cynthia from Whitehorse, CanadaThis song also uses samples of the very recognizable theme from Young & the Restless, a daytime soap opera.
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