In The Shape Of A Heart

Album: Lives In The Balance (1986)
Charted: 66 70
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  • It was a ruby that she wore
    On a chain around her neck
    In the shape of a heart
    In the shape of a heart
    It was a time I won't forget
    For the sorrow and regret
    And the shape of a heart
    And the shape of a heart
    I guess I never knew
    What she was talking about
    I guess I never knew
    What she was living without

    People speak of love don't know what they're thinking of
    Wait around for the one who fits just like a glove
    Speak in terms of belief and belonging
    Try to fit some name to their longing

    There was a hole left in the wall
    From some ancient fight
    About the size of a fist
    Or something thrown that had missed
    And there were other holes as well
    In the house where our nights fell
    Far too many to repair
    In the time that we were there

    People speak of love don't know what they're thinking of
    Reach out to each other though the push and shove
    Speak in terms of a life and the learning
    Try to think of a word for the burning

    You keep it up
    You try so hard
    To keep a life from coming apart
    And never know
    What breaches and faults are concealed
    In the shape of a heart

    It was the ruby that she wore
    On a stand beside the bed
    In the hour before dawn
    When I knew she was gone
    And I held it in my hand
    For a little while
    And dropped it into the wall
    Let it go, heard it fall

    I... I guess I never knew
    What she was talking about
    I guess I never knew
    What she was living without
    People speak of love don't know what they're thinking of
    Wait around for the one who fits just like a glove
    Speak in terms of a life and the living
    Try to find the word for forgiving

    You keep it up
    You try so hard
    To keep a life from coming apart
    And never know
    The shallows and the unseen reefs
    That are there from the start
    In the shape of a heart Writer/s: JACKSON BROWNE
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Comments: 19

  • Chris Hughes from Leicester, UkOne comment here says he allegedly beat Phllis. The only allegation that he mistreated her came from Joni Mitchell in her songs Song For Sharon and Not to Blame; and Mitchell doesn't allege that he beat her. Mitchell's allegations were the false accusations made in anger by a spurned lover. See my account of Browne and Major's brief 1972 relationship and how it ended up with Not to Blame: https://bit.ly/3kznGvB
  • Jacqueline Brewsaugh from South CarolinaFlying Gypsy you are so right, the song My Baby's feeling funny in the morning that's a true event. That's how he won his wife Phyllis you know he got his ass whooped. They were together a couple years they had a son together and they got married after the boy was born got a year-and-a-half later. 4 months later is when she committed suicide. Here he was on tour with this little boy. Now there's only two songs that he admits about writing about his wife but right after she committed suicide is when the album Late For the Sky came out. He doesn't admit it but when you listen to that album I can't help but think he was thinking about her when he wrote those songs
  • Flying Gypsy from TexasJackson says the song is about his wife Phyllis, the song is not about Daryl Hannah. That relationship was much later in Jackson’s life. Read interviews with Jackson where he clearly says the song was about his loss and grief after losing his wife.
  • Sjp from Dorset UkLovely comment Debi. Really moving and spot on the truth. Take care
  • Jrz from Jrz , In Va listened to this for the first time in a long time~ felt it to my soul~ on the wings of an angel a message to you in heaven " I still wear my Ruby heart"
  • Mikeonzephyr from Maricopa, ArizonaI have long been a big fan of Jackson Browne, ever since he emerged on the scene. I agree with the other commentators here that "In the Shape of a Heart" is maybe, probably, certainly the best effort of an exceptional career. Through an economy of words, he brilliantly and perfectly use the imagery introduced in the song to describe moving on from the relationship.

    "And I held it in my hand
    For a little while
    Dropped it into the wall
    I let it go and heard it fall"

    Thank you Jackson Browne
  • Donaldee from Elma, WashingtonOne of Jackson Brown's finest songs. The master story teller covers the full range of human emotions as the band delivers a driving complement to his confessions of Love and longing. The artist has a talent for delivering music that almost everyone can relate to. This song was so relevant to my life that in a time I wont forget for the sorrow and regret, I bought my wife of 35 years a heart shaped pendant with a Ruby on a gold chain and gave it to her as a gift.
    I gave her the song as well. Thank You Jackson Brown.
  • Anthony from Hickory, N.c.The song came out in 1986. Jackson Browne is documented as saying that the song specifically addresses his relationship with his first wife, Phyllis Major, who died in March 1976 of a drug overdose:

    It was a time I won't forget
    For the sorrow and regret —
    And the shape of a heart.

    Jimmy Guterman, upon reviewing the album in 1986, singled out the song as a "mature version of the dark love songs on The Pretender. With the lyric "I guess I never knew/What she was talking about" coupled with "I guess I never knew/What she was living without,'" Guterman writes, Browne "nails heartbreak to the wall and sends his listeners scurrying for the Kleenex."
  • Roland from Wake Forest, NcOne of my favorites from Jackson Browne!
  • Eric from San Francisco, CaThere was a song on The Pretender,Sleep's Dark and Silent Gate, that Jackson wrote about his wife. In the Shape of a Heart was many albums, many years later, so it is unlikey it was written about Phyllis. The songs on I'm Alive, including and particulary the title song, were likely written about Daryl Hannah, who he was accused of hitting
  • Rick from Frederick, Mdthis is one of the very best pieces of music ever created by jackson browne.
  • John from Leicester, United KingdomIt apparently was written about his wife Phyllis, who committed suicide. He is alleged to have beaten her over a long period and it's his apology as such...
  • Walt from Astoria, OrAmy, I have no idea if "In the Shape of a Heart" was written about Daryl Hannah or not. But, she was born in late 1960, which made her about 25 when the song came out. Her and Jackson Browne were together from 1983 to 1992.
  • Amy from Traverse City, MiGod, I can't believe some of you. Look at the date the song came out, Darryl Hannah was a child. This was about the tragic loss of Phyllis.
  • Liz from Smallville, KsNice song. I like it a lot
  • Paula from Fort Wayne, InI heard that it's about his failed relationship with actress, Daryl Hannah and I'm fairly certain that it's true.
  • Charles from Charlotte, NcThis is one of the most powerful and poignant ballads I have ever heard. I cannot believe it did so poorly on the singles charts!
  • Patrick from Charlotte, NcThis song is rumored to be written about his wife Phyllis, who committed suicide.
  • Debi from Seattle, WaI now wear a ruby on a chain around my neck in the shape of a heart. I bought it after my 16 year marriage failed, not to remember the failure but to remind me of the fragility of love. It takes courage, and eyes wide open, tho most the time we never even know what we're looking for. Thanks JB.
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