Album: Sounds Of Silence (1966)

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• A winter's day
  In a deep and dark December
  I am alone
  Gazing from my window to the streets below
  On a freshly fallen silent shroud of snow
  
  I am a rock
  I am an island
  
  I've built walls
  A fortress deep and mighty
  That none may penetrate
  I have no need of friendship, friendship causes pain
  It's laughter and it's loving I disdain
  
  I am a rock
  I am an island
  
  Don't talk of love
  But I've heard the word before
  It's sleeping in my memory
  I won't disturb the slumber of feelings that have died
  If I never loved I never would have cried
  
  I am a rock
  I am an island
  
  I have my books
  And my poetry to protect me
  I am shielded in my armor
  Hiding in my room, safe within my womb
  I touch no one and no one touches me
  
  I am a rock
  I am an island
  
  And a rock feels no pain
  And an island never cries Writer/s: Paul Simon
  Publisher: Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
  Lyrics licensed and provided by LyricFind

Comments: 53

• Kevin Chaney from UsI am 65 and this song has provided comfort and a place of refuge and strength 3 times now in my life.
• ChrisYears ago, I read that they had 4 degrees between them, 1 being English Lit. Could there be any link to John Donne's poem, Meditation 17 ? "No man is an island, entire of itself..........& therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls; it tolls for thee" Any connection perhaps ?
• Miles from Vancouver, CanadaWhen I hear this song (or even just read the lyrics), I picture myself all stretched out in a walk-in linen closet at someone's house. Maybe describing yourself as a rock and an island gives you a warm fuzzy feeling.
• Jennifur SunAlways wondered who did that neat guitar part on this song. Thanks Ralph Casale. And have felt like the lyric and a rock feels no pain and an island never cries in my life.
• Internet Detective from Nostalgia HoleThe terms "rock" and "womb" are very common in Christian Lyrics, and often these lyrics reference the specific passage in the bible where Jesus calls Peter his "rock" upon which the religion of Christianity will be founded. Here rock is a representation of unbreakable faith. So to me, the song is less about being a recluse physically and more about being isolated mentally, like the singer has decided to form their own religion, their own sect of ideas, their own solid faith, a rock which is unbreakable, and it is a rock separate from all other rocks, and thus can be called an island.
• Bobby from Holbrook, NyIt's my 'runner-up' best song of all time! (Oh, OK. My #1 song is The Byrds' rendition of 'The Bells Of Rhymney.') While much is to be said pertaining to the lyrics, I just love the music. The bass and 12-string are my instruments. It's simple, and poignant. There's no silly 'key changes' nor 'middle-eights' to break up the monotony, because there isn't any. Just powerful words and music.
  I also like the intro and the ending, basically the same, with the ending closing with a nice fade. I'm done. Thanks.
• Roy from SloughThis song means more to me than any other Paul Simon song for personal reasons. I prefer the solo version on "songbook" it should be a song sung solo. If you like this you should like "most peculiar man,"which is perhaps even sadder & deserves its own discussion on here. This is also on "songbook"
• Tom from Perth, AustraliaThe ultimate ode to the lyrical cynic!
• John from Wilmington, DeI see the narrator of this song as a painfully shy, extremely introverted, intellectual adolescent boy from 15 to 17 years old. He has become infatuated with a girl who goes to his school. He asked her for a date. It took him an enormous amount of courage to do this. She either turned him down, or she accepted one date with him. He was too nervous to say very much. She was uncomfortable with him. She did not accept a second date.
  
  Now he pretends that he does not care, that he is too strong and too hard to care, but he is terribly hurt.
• Matthew from Toronto, OnPaul Simon seems embarrassed by this song today, and virtually disowns it. But I think it's the perfect embodiment of teenage isolation, and perfectly in keeping with the theme of the 2 hits that preceded it, "Sounds of Silence" & "Homeward Bound," both of which were predicated on loneliness & alienation. A maladjusted teenager myself at the time, I identified with this song, heart & soul, and loved it to death. Sitting in my room, listening to this song on my tiny transistor radio, I finally found my voice.
• Jeffrey from Taipei, TaiwanA very sad song, but best of all times!
• Hillary from Houston, TxFunny others mentioned Donne. I recently got a tiny tatoo: "une ile". I originally considered it my f-you to John Donne. Then I was reminded of this song, glad others thought like me.
• Hannah from Charlottetown, PeI love this song.And ever since some classmates did a presentation on how this song could be about Holden Caulfield, I can't help but think of him when I hear this song.
• Dayton from Memphis, TnI have always thought that this song was a declaration of a man who was not a rock, but needed people, and had been hurt. I am a rock was what he told the world, almost convincing himself. You can almost hear the truth seeping through at the end of the song, when the music and backing vocal fade into a single, solo voice, "and an island never cries." This is like the man who appears tough, mean, invincible, who is really the opposit.
• Mike from Granum, AbA great song, sadly I have lived it. A person can choose to build a fortress where he can be safe from attack, safe from pain, and hence never need shed any tears. But hopefully the person will realize that a rock feels no joy either. The room that is cozzy as a womb becomes a tomb. The heart, given enough time, will become hard and incapable of any feeling. I choose to come out of my room at the risk of pain in order that I might also know joy. I repeat, I really like this song. I understand Simon. I think at times a person who is hurt will retreat to his room. This is okay for a time. Sadly, some stay in their room, never to come out. They stay in their fortress, like a turtle drawn into its armored shell. But this is not living, but only existing.
• Nadia from Kiev, Ukrainethis is about an "anomalous man." He is extremely intelligent, but his life is empty. He has developed a hard exterior to hide the hurt inside that he may have experienced from the past. He tried to love and once had friends but was rejected for being different. He doesn't feel victimizes, he feels like a hero. Like he is better than everyone else and will not subject himself to the meaningless lives of everyday people.
• Breanna from Henderson, NvThis is so my song. This song so discribes me. This and John Lennon's Watching the Wheels, so totally are me.
• Dan from Lockport, NyThe upbeat music sure disguises the fact of the lyrics.I believe Paul said that at the time he wrote this,he was sick.It's a song about "screw the world",I don't need anyone or anything. I have my place with all my comforts to protect me, what more do I need?"Until you think about it, "a rock feels no pain and an island never cries."It's about depression.
• Eve from Pécs, HungaryI think Paul Simon though writing about being a rock and an island, knows perfectly well at the same time that it is impossible, but he feels people sometimes are inclined to feel like this, mainly when hurt emotionally, and they imagine they can do this, they can be successful by relying only on themselves. But I think Paul is much more sensible and emotionally mature than believing that it is really possible. Yes, he's speaking about being a rock but he surely knows it's only a substitute for real human attitude and feelings in times of distress and lonelyness. Like saying, if you don't want me, I don't want you.
• Steve Dotstar from Los Angeles, CaWhen I first heard this song on the radio
  while in the car I really paid attention to the lyrics...
  part of what was great about the 60's...Paul Simon!
• Julia from Brooklyn, NyHey, has anyone ever noticed the similarities between this song's lyrics and the poem "The Raven" by Edgar Allen Poe?
  I'd be interested to know if the poem did influence the song, but I haven't found any claims backing up that theory. Thoughts?
• Kevin from Reading , PaUh, Sarah from Vegas, you don't know what you're writing about. Yes, "I Am a Rock" was written by Simon (as all the songs were) and recorded a version on his Songbook album (as he did "April Come She Will," "kathy's song" and numerous others) but the song was re-recorded once S&G reunited and got the Columbia contract. Simon's voice is the lead on this, but Garfunkel can clearly be heard singing harmony and unison parts.
• Sarah from Las Vegas, Nv1965 was the original release date of Paul Simon's Songbook.
• Sarah from Las Vegas, NvActually this song is not by Simon and Garfunkel. This was a solo project for Paul Simon off of his Paul Simon Songbook. He takes all the credit...sorry Garfunkel lovers.
• Nick from Bethlehem, PaI can relate to this song very much as well. It's a healthy way to release tension and frustration. The ending though, seems to me, that is a bit of sadness. How I take it is "A Rock Feels no Pain, and an island never cries". I don't think he's saying it like in your face. I take it as 'You know, a rock feels no pain..and an island never cries..so perhaps he's going back on what he says and decides, "well, I released my anger, and I want to feel, I want to cry".
  
  P.S. I'm glad I saw some messages that say he is going against what John Donne said. As for Mr. Alienation, maybe you remember him being on Saturday Night Live performing "Still Crazy After All These Years" on Thanksgiving weekend as a turkey. Another fun fact is the single version of this as well as the MONO LP version is slightly different in the vocal delivery as well as the music. Thanks All!
• Marc from Perth, AustraliaInteresting comment from Eric, Teaneck, NJ. Perhaps Simon thought he was just having a bit of fun with his antithetical response to "no man is an island" and accidentally revealed a significant feature of his true nature. It's hard not to suspect that Simon is aloof and, to a large extent, alienated.
• Bob from Parkers Prairie, MnThis song is definitely one of Simon And Garfunkle's top three. The others being Sounds of Silence (of course) and Homeward Bound.
• Bob from Parkers Prairie, MnIt is definitely in Simon and Garfunkles top three. The other two being Sound Of Silence (of course) and Homeward Bound.
• Joni from New York, NyThis was the first Simon and Garfunkel song I really ever liked. It kind of reaches out to me when I feel lonely.
• Mary from Yuma, AzThis is about a man trying to prove how tough he is and how he doesn't need anyone. But at the end, there is a bit of sadness, when he says "a rock feels no pain", and an island never cries" This means that he was hurt very badly in the past, so has decided to cut himself off from the world. Mary, Yuma
• Daan from Tegelen, NetherlandsKarlington, Belfast, that is the exact dilemma I have about this song. Are we to sympathise with these feelings or are these the words of an anipathic, Holden Caufield kind of person whom we should despise (or mock) rather than identify with.
  I myself can sometimes quite relate to the lyrics.
• Pearl from Mayer, AzI have loved this song since the first time I heard it
  even though it is the exact oppisite of me
• Nathan from From The Country Of, Canadait goes without saying this is the greatest seclusion song lol
• Jon from Oakridge, OrSimon and Garfunkel's 2nd greatest. 1st being "the sound of Silence" of course.
• Karlington from Belfast, Irelandthis song, to me, is about one prevents themself from feeling to avoid pain. a "if you dont feel you wont be hurt" mentality seems to surround it. my dearest song. one question to you though, is it for about feeling like this or against it?
• Ellen from Graz, AustriaIt's like medication when you're sad... the best way to treat lovesickness. It reminds me that I'm not gonna break down because of this, I am strong and I'm gonna survive it. I am a rock. I used to scream the lyrics when i was sad.
• Mike from Germantown, MdI misheard a lyric as " Satan in my womb".
• Nathan from Defiance, OhI think Simon and Garfunkel really hit it on the head when they describe the feelings of introversion and isolation some people feel, and others cannot fathom. No offense to his fans out there, but John Donne is a dolt.
• Joshua from Twin Cities, MnA joke I once heard is that Saddam Hussein misheard the chorus to this song (i.e. "I am Iraq") and took it to heart.
• Howard from St. Louis Park, MnIt's one of the best written Simon and Garfunkel hits and one of my favorites.
• B0b from Somewhere, MiThis song is about Paul Simon going against John Donne. The meaning is about Simon shutting himself away to write. He was saying he was an island.
• Charlie from Cape Girardeau, MoThis is not talking about isolation for isolation's sake, like a hermit, but about a failed relationship. The best way to keep from being hurt is to put up walls around yourself. "I won't disturb the slumber of feelings that have died, if I'd never loved I never would have cried."
• Jo Bob from Mccleary, WaI'm sure a lot of people have said this, but I was just blown away when I heard this song. Nearly every single line of this song explained exactly who I was. It was actually kind of scary, but it's still one of my favorite songs.
• Bodhi from Calcutta, IndiaMay be the reference is for 'To Marguerite'
  "Yes: in the sea of life enisled,
  With echoing straits between us thrown.
  Dotting the shoreless watery wild,
  We mortal millions live alone.
  The islands feel the enclasping flow,
  And then their endless bounds they know. "
  It is a pretty old idea that turns up in each century.
• Aylin from Montreal, CanadaI don't know why, but this is probably my favourite Simon & Garfunkel song.
• Eric from Teaneck, NjSimon later said this was one song he wished he hadn't written, because it stuck him with the label of "Mr. Alienation."
• Black from Toronto, CanadaThis song
  is exactly what I am.
• Lance from Spring Hill, FlThis song describes how Paul Simon is with crowds. He admitted to a reporter that he isn't good with talking with large groups of people.
• Kt from Guaynabo, OtherPerhaps refuting more than referencing John Donne and the fact that all people go through a stage in life when they want nothing to do with anyone and feel emotions are completely useless.
• John from Levittown, NyFew artists have managed to capture bleakness as well as Simon and Garfunkel. A great declaration of misanthropy.
• Jade from Chippewa Falls, WiI think many people can relate to this song....
• Dana from Atlanta, GaReferencing, perhaps, John Donne: "No man is an island."
• Natasha from Chico, Cawhen i was little i used to think it was 'i am a rock, i have it all in my hand' haha, good song...

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