I'm Sorry

Album: Windsong (1975)
Charted: 1
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  • John Denver put a twist on the typical post-breakup apology song by injecting some self-pity into "I'm Sorry," where he sings:

    I'm sorry for the chains I put on you
    But more than anything else
    I'm sorry for myself
    For living without you


    The song is about his first wife, Ann Martell, written at a time when their marriage was crumbling, due in part to Denver's success, which took him away from home and into temptation. In 1974 Denver made a play to set things right with an ode to her called "Annie's Song," a #1 hit that made Denver even more famous and put him on the road for even longer - he launched an extensive world tour in 1975. "I'm Sorry" takes another angle but takes on the same subject. John and Annie did reconcile but it didn't last - they got divorced in 1982.
  • When you think of classic John Denver songs, "I'm Sorry" probably doesn't make the list, but it was a huge hit in 1975, topping the Hot 100, Adult Contemporary and Country charts, Denver's only song to hit #1 on all three.

    By the way, the most popular John Denver songs in the streaming era are "Take Me Home Country Roads," "Annie's Song," "Rocky Mountain High" and "Thank God I'm A Country Boy."
  • Denver continued to play this song in concert long after his split from Annie. It was in the setlist to his last tour, which completed in October 1997 a week before he died in a plane crash.
  • Denver's producer, Milt Okun, saw "I'm Sorry" as part of a triumvirate of songs about separation from loved ones, along with "Leaving On A Jet Plane" (an early Denver song that was a hit for Peter, Paul and Mary) and "Back Home Again."

    Okun said "I'm Sorry" was "a very specific, intimate song about how John was feeling at the time. 'More than anything else, I'm sorry for myself.' I mean, what a line."
  • "I'm Sorry" was released as a single with "Calypso" as the B-side. "Calypso" proved very popular and got lots of airplay, so two weeks after "I'm Sorry" went to #1 (September 27, 1975), Billboard anointed "Calypso" the A-side, and two weeks later it went to #2 behind "Bad Blood" by Neil Sedaka and Elton John.

    "I'm Sorry" ended up being Denver's last Top 10 hit on the Hot 100. Later on, he augmented his music with some acting gigs and made a lot of TV appearances - he hosted the Grammy Awards six times.

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