Big Daddy of Them All

Album: Big Daddy (1989)
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Songfacts®:

  • "Big Daddy Of Them All" was inspired by Burl Ives' portrayal of Big Daddy in the 1958 movie version of Tennessee Williams' Cat On A Hot Tin Roof. Mellencamp said in the liner notes for the On The Rural Route 7609 box set: "This song was more or less a postcard to myself, saying, 'You think Burl Ives wasn't so nice? Guess what, John.'"
  • This song is one of the more personal in Mellencamp's canon. By his own admission, he could be bossy and dismissive, and outright hostile to the media. Still, he was one of the most successful recording artists of the '80s, earning money, fame, and adulation. Just one problem: None of those things were important to him.

    In this song, he draws a parallel to the Big Daddy character in Cat On A Hot Tin Roof. Big Daddy was rich, philandering, and cantankerous, which did him no good when he reached the end of his life. Mellencamp was still in his 30s, but he could see where his life was headed. At the time, his second marriage was crumbling down.
  • This is the lead track on Mellencamp's Big Daddy album, and the song that provided the title. It has a very rootsy feel, with a prominent violin (by Lisa Germano) and accordion (by John Cascella). This kind of instrumentation is prominent throughout the Big Daddy album.
  • It's worth noting that Paul Newman stars in the 1958 adaptation of Cat On A Hot Tin Roof, which inspired this song. He plays Brick, Big Daddy's son. Paul Newman movies also made their way into Mellencamp's songs "Paper In Fire," which cribs a line from Hud, and "Rain On The Scarecrow," which borrows from dialogue in Cool Hand Luke.
  • This song was a milestone for Mellencamp, who had a bit of a revelation. "At one time I thought I had all this stuff figured out, then I realized I didn't," he explained. "And I realized, like I said in 'Big Daddy,' when you live for yourself it's hard on everybody. I didn't realize I was hard to live with. It never dawned on me."

    "You gotta grow up and deal with what's real," he added. "Happiness, finding out who you are, and learning how to be a human being is what's real." (This interview appears in his VH1 "Coming Of Age" documentary.)

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