In My Room

Album: Surfer Girl (1963)
Charted: 23
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  • This is written from the perspective of a teenager who feels safe and comfortable in his bedroom. Brian Wilson suffered from severe agoraphobia, and refused to leave his bedroom for a significant amount of time. He wrote this song to give people and idea of how he felt.
  • Brian Wilson explained in 1990: "When Dennis, Carl and I lived in Hawthorne as kids, we all slept in the same room. One night I sang the song 'Ivory Tower' to them and they liked it. Then a couple of weeks later, I proceeded to teach them both how to sing the harmony parts to it. It took them a little while, but they finally learned it. We then sang this song night after night. It brought peace to us. When we recorded 'In My Room,' there was just Dennis, Carl and me on the first verse... and we sounded just like we did in our bedroom all those nights. This story has more meaning than ever since Dennis' death."
  • In the 1998 documentary Endless Harmony, Brian Wilson described this song as about being "somewhere where you could lock out the world, go to a secret little place, think, be, do whatever you have to do."
  • Charles Manson, who was convicted of orchestrating the murders of six people in 1969, made repeated claims that The Beach Boys stole this song from him. In Manson's view, he wrote a song called "In My Cell" which was about how he feels peace with himself in his jail cell. Manson did have a connection to The Beach Boys - he knew their drummer Dennis Wilson - and did write and record some songs. His claims have little basis in fact - something that is true of most of his proclamations.
  • Bill Medley from The Righteous Brothers recorded this with Phil Everly and Brian Wilson for his album Damn Near Righteous, his first new album since the untimely 2003 death of his partner Bobby Hatfield. >>
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  • Interesting food for thought: Brian Wilson just might have inadvertently inspired one of the greatest jazz fusion bands, Blood Sweat & Tears, albeit indirectly. Al Kooper relates in Backstage Passes and Backstabbing Bastards that he was sitting in Brian Wilson's living room while he showed off the Pet Sounds album. He was just leaving The Blues Project and wandering around California in an existential haze wondering what to do next, when while visiting with Brian Wilson, "Deep in the back of my mind was a band that could put dents in your shirt if you got within fifteen rows of the stage..." He explains his idea of having a band with a horn section in it, more than R&B bands but less than Count Basie's or Buddy Rich's. "Somewhere in the middle was a mixture of soul, jazz, and rock that was my little fantasy."
  • This was released as the B-side of "Be True To Your School."
  • Linda Ronstadt and Tammy Wynette both covered this song.
  • One of the many who found solace in this song is Steve Perry of Journey fame, who told Rolling Stone: "This was an anthem to my teenage isolation. I just wanted to be left alone in my room, where I could find peace of mind and play music."

Comments: 12

  • Omar from NhI don’t believe the Charles Manson statement here is at all accurate. This song was written and recorded YEARS before Dennis began interacting with Manson. The song in question Manson claimed was stolen was called “Cease to Exist” which The Beach Boys allegedly used and titled “Never Learn Not to Love.”
  • Jennifur Sun from RamonaA lot of us felt the same way Brian. Wonder who did that pretty sound that sounds like a Harp?
  • Dan from IdahoThis song was used to great effect in the movie "We Need to Talk About Kevin" ( It's quite an intense drama.
  • Sabrina from Corvallis, OrSuch purity and innocence in this song. I could completely identify with the lyrics because when I was a teenager (and even today) my room was my sanctuary...a place to get away from the craziness of the world as it were. I dig the original but there's a also a nice instrumental rendition on the rockabye baby lullaby CD of Beach Boys music.
  • Stormy from Kokomo, InThis song brings back my memories of when I was in the 8th grade and we had "sock hops" at the Kokomo Y.M.C.A. This was always a great slow dance and then we would always sneak off to the handball courts to "make out" with our girlfriends! God! Youth was great!
  • John from Tiptonville, Tnin my room is my all time favorite song.
  • Asef from Silkeborg, DenmarkOne of my favorites. A very sensitive song which almost makes me cry. This song and "The warmth of the sun" are two excellent ballads from the boys.
  • John from Millersville, MdAweaomw song. Not my favorite from the Boys, as they have numerous absolutely genius compositions, but this song certainly displays their sheer talent. Excellent harmony, as always. One song that stands out as maybe having better composition is Heroes and Villains.
  • Charlie from Cape Girardeau, MoThis song shows Brian Wilson's genius not just as a composer but as an arranger also. Can't think of any other song before or since that starts a line with a melody, then two part harmony, then three part harmony, all in the same line. Brilliant and hauntingly beautiful.
  • Aiedail from Carnation, Wathis song is awsome
  • Martin from Paisley, ScotlandThis is my mum's favourite song ever. Sadly, anytime she's been at one of Brian's concerts, he'd never played it. Aww, shame.
  • Erik from Lund, SwedenDavid Crosby (of Byrds and CSN&Y fame) has stated that when he first heard this, he literally "gave up", stating that he then realised he could never produce something this good.
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