Album: Dad Loves His Work (1981)
Charted: 11
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  • She's been afraid to go out
    She's afraid of the knock on her door
    There's always a shade of a doubt
    She can never be sure
    Who comes to call
    Maybe the friend of a friend of a friend
    Anyone at all
    Anything but nothing again

    CHORUS:
    It used to be her town
    It used to be her town, too
    It used to be her town
    It used to be her town, too

    Seems like even her old girlfriends
    Might be talking her down
    She's got her name on the grapevine
    Running up and down
    The telephone line
    Talking 'bout
    Someone said, someone said
    Something 'bout, something else
    Someone might have said about her
    She always figured that they were her friends
    But maybe they can live without her

    [Chorus]

    Well, people got used to seeing them both together
    But now he's gone and life goes on
    Nothing lasts forever, oh no
    She gets the house and the garden
    He gets the boys in the band
    Some of them his friends
    Some of them her friends
    Some of them understand
    Lord knows that this is just a small town city
    Yes, and everyone can see you fall
    It's got nothing to do with pity
    I just wanted to give you a call

    It used to be your town
    It used to be my town, too
    You never know 'till it all falls down
    Somebody loves you
    Somebody loves you
    Darling, somebody still loves you
    I can still remember
    When it used to be her town, too
    It used to be your town
    It used to be my town, too Lyrics licensed and provided by LyricFind

Comments: 11

  • Dt from Islamorada,flGreat tune about the heartbreak of a couple breaking up.
  • Linda from Northern KentuckyWho is on guitar on this video?
  • Ken from Louisville, KyThe misconception is this is about James Taylor and Carly Simon's marriage breakdown. But it probably is about Tayjor's producer's (Peter Asher) marriage breakdown. The Ashers were a popular couple in LA rock circles while married, but when they split, she was ignored. Taylor felt for her and wanted to reassure her that "somebody loves you".
  • Barry from Sauquoit, NyOn March 7th 1981, James Taylor & J.D. Souther performed "Her Town Too" on the ABC-TV program 'American Bandstand'...
    And the very next day on March 8th it entered Billboard's Hot Top 100 chart at position #38, and seven weeks later on April 26th, 1981 it peaked at #11 {for 2 weeks} and spent 14 weeks on the Top 100...
    It reached #5 on Billboard's Adult Contemporary Tracks chart...
    Five days after this 'Bandstand' appearance Mr. Taylor celebrated his 33rd birthday, he was born on March 12th, 1948.
  • Peter from Chazy, Nyjames taylor has the greatest voice in popular music history. john david souther has been associated with some of the greatest musicians in american music history including the eagles. the souther hillman furay didn't quite live up to david geffen's dream of the next csn. I don't pretend to have any clue as to the marriage breakup of carly and james, but james taylor and jd souther would be a great combo for an album. peter, chazy, ny (way upstate)
  • J from Toronto, CanadaSheila Weller's recently published book "Girls Like Us" about Joni Mitchell, Carly Simon and Carole King explains that "Her Town Too" was written by James Taylor and J D Souther for Betsy Asher. She and Peter (Peter & Gordon) had a rather messy divorce and the song detailed Betsy's emotional vulnerability during this time. You'll find the explanation on pages 429 and 430.
  • Michelle from Wilmington, DeWOW! Amazing song! James Taylor just has that sound ya know?
  • Dennis from Anchorage, AkThis song always struck me as being about how people around a breaking up couple always seem to insist on choosing sides. "Some of them his friends, some of them her friends, some of them understand" is especially clear on this. I always appreciated that aspect of it, but especially when my wife and I split up some years ago. All of "our" friends turned out to be MY friends, and cut her off completely. It was a very sad time for her. I was glad for the support from my friends, but I felt bad for her. About the only person who supported her in the whole business was, ironically, myself.
  • Charles from Charlotte, NcSouther had a hit of his own in 1979 titled "You're Only Lonely". It sounded like something Roy Orbison might have written.
  • Kei from Salem, OrWhile the song may indeed have been inspired by Taylor and Souther's dissolving relationships, the story it tells seems almost to be that of the other party.

    The song is about a small-town woman whose marriage is ending (by the third verse, it is legally over). While it is never explicitly said, it seems implied that the marriage ended through infidelity on her part (thus, all the lyrics about her being at the center of rumors, while her husband appears to escape scuttlebutt unscathed, or being afraid to leave her house). At the end, her husband and children have left, and she's alone in her house. It's then that it's clear that Taylor and Souther have been singing from the POV of another observer: someone who has watched the entire scenario unfold, and appears to still care for and accept the woman for who she is. While it's possible that this is the "other man", that to me seems highly unlikely; to my mind, it seems much more plausible that this is yet another man, a longtime male friend who has loved this woman for a long time (thus "you never know till it all comes down that somebody loves you").
    At least, this is how it appears to me. Your mileage may vary.
  • Kei from Salem, OrApparently, prior to Dad Loves His Work's release, Carly Simon was incensed with James for concentrating on touring and recording, as opposed to spending time with her and their kids. She gave him an ultimatum: cut back on the recording and touring, or I walk. The alhum's title was his answer, and they divorced the year after its release.
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